"If you objectify yourself as a shadow or as a silhouette then you become an empty person that you can fill. And if you understand your outline then you are objectifying yourself. You can learn to categorize yourself differently because people don’t see themselves as things. But it’s not really a bad thing to see yourself as a thing, a vessel. That helps you understand how to communicate yourself and how to equate yourself to other things and compare yourself and find the differences and the similarities all at the same time."